27 Dec Yoga Yamas: Asteya, or Non-Stealing
There are five yamas and five niyamas, for a total of ten moral and ethical precepts to help guide one’s life.
Here is the third precept, asteya.
Resisting desire for that which does not belong to us.
This one, like the others, seems so obvious on the surface, but think about what a disciplined practice of asteya would look like.
Crossing a friend’s boundaries can be seen as stealing space that you aren’t entitled to.
Interrupting someone in conversation can be seen as stealing their chance to be understood.
As a white person trying to figure out institutionalized white supremacy, I think about ways I’ve taken advantage of privileges given to me that I didn’t earn and frankly wasn’t even aware of until recent years.
In fact, I often ask myself how I can teach and share yoga in a way that isn’t stealing. After all, yoga is a practice that derives from a South Asian heritage that doesn’t belong to me.
Other ways we can live in the spirit of asteya
-When something comes to you, let it come. When something leaves, let it go (Satchidananda). Don’t force; don’t hang on too tightly.
-Use what you take with gratitude, respect, and reciprocity…give something back or pay it forward.
-Have your own experience, don’t compare your experience to someone else’s; don’t try to “steal” their experience. Notice if you are coveting another’s strengths and forgetting to explore your own.
-Become aware of little ways a person might steal things, attention, or space: taking more than you need at the dinner table, monopolizing conversation, or wearing a strong scent in a space where others can’t not smell you.
-At times we may feel like we don’t have the means to get what we desire, and feeling like we can’t create for ourselves what we want could lead to stealing from others –thoughts and ideas, money or time, resources. Have faith in yourself. If anyone can do it, so can you.